Do you know the verse I am referring to, I” paraphrasing of course? Hugs, Togi

Kate … I don’t even read the trash talk, swear word stuff. I skip right over the garbage because truly, that’s all it is. Have you seen the movie Night at the Museum? Robin Williams’ character berates Ben Stiller’s character for fighting with the monkey and asks “Who’s evolved?” And he tells Ben to treat his “brother” with respect. So he asks the nasty little monkey, respectfully, to return the keys, and the nasty little monkey hands them over. I guess what I’m saying is no matter how nasty that little monkey (or kitty) may be, it will only be nastier if you treat it nasty. I’m a Christian. Just because someone else doesn’t treat me well doesn’t mean I can treat them unwell. I just need to be a Christian. Soooo … even a nasty little monkey has redeemable qualities. And KC is a person behind that moniker — behind the secrecy of the computer screen. I don’t support the bad words and name calling and insults AT ALL. I don’t read them AT ALL. But I do skim for content. LOL Even KC says things of worth, when she puts her mind to a constructive train of thought.

DIFFERENT GUEST!::: We’re on the same side, sweetie! Love ya!

Ha ha – I wish!!!! It was about 8am and I was commuting (ugh – worst thing about London!). Although I did stay out till 4am last friday to make up for it. I had to go party with some Brazilians to get over the stress of it all! (They are the best nation at partying IMO!). I know you’re a big girl Togester, you and I are two peas in a pod. Hard on the outside, soft in the centre, it’s the only way to be! Hated all that stuff between our regular posters though and hope they may be able to make amends in the future and if not, at least agree to disagree and come back and post. I would miss them all!

Keep desperately trying to get that laugh KC, you’ll make some headway one day! When the only things you can think of to make uh, “jokes”, about are vaginas and fat people you know you’re scraping the barrel you’ve been loitering at the bottom of for quite some time now! Again, I feel bad for you. The only thing you are good for is being an internet reject and troll and you are even useless at that! You fail on so many levels I feel genuinely sorry for you. Come on KC, there, there, sit on my knee, tell me all about it love. What’s the problem, momma never loved you? The boys at school all laughed at you and called you a minger? Don’t despair KC, there is someone out there for everyone. Just please don’t try to make up for what you lack in looks, intelligence and charm with what you hopefully refer to as a “sense of humour”. You’ll die single and alone. On second thoughts, have you ever thought about getting a cat?

I have to wonder if we had all been sitting around having lunch if any of these offending comments would have happened. I would doubt it. DG is coming from a analytical point of view based on her life experiences and things she feels very passionate about , and Toby Kat is a mom with a tender heart. My daughter is a different ethnic background from me, she is beautiful, growing up it would have never ocurred to me that she might reject me. She and I are like one, very close and she is my heart. That was why I said that would never be an issue for TK, I felt the sting of that comment, but I understand the base of what DG feels. I wish at that moment passions could have subsided and DG could have felt the emotion of that and immediately apologized because I don’t think she meant to cause pain anymore than she truly meant to insult you. Tempers flare, emotions get involved and then people get hurt , when in truth that would have never happened. She is right though on the pecking order, as horrible as that sounds, it does exist, and only someone who is not in a racially mixed family would disagree with that. I know just from talking to my cousin , for example in Hawaii there are many different racial devides, and if you are Japanese , you are in good fortune. If you are African Ameican or Filipino, good luck. sorry but that is how it is. My daughers bestfriend is whitem and she wanted to marry a guy from San Fran who was Japanese, his family threatened to cut him out of the trust. He b roke up with her, family and honor and all that. It was more about shaming his family. That is not the case for everyone of course, but there are many very traditional families like that still.

I don’t want to judge someone for their pov, although I was a little taken back by the comments, but I hope we can just all cut each other some slack and remember things can get out of control on this blog easy when someone else comes in like KC to stir it up. Togi I can not support this person with you hun, they are proud of thier antics, seek devide, destroy, and for what, just because they have a thing against Keane (obviously because they took that name), I will not even respond to that person. Dealing with Mia is trying enough but this one is over the line.

I am tired of battling with people who do not like me, if you don’t then ignore me, how hard is that? I am not so sure it is worth it to even stay and post here anymore. If it can not be pleasant and I am under constant attack , maybe that is a sign of the times. IAN is not around, this place is going to the trash bin it seems. I have stayed to support him and chat with friends, but this is getting intolerable. I think he is doing pretty well and does not really need the support at this point. His books are doing great, and while I ahve not had time to read both yet, I will, and am looking forward of course o Brange.

I had hoped we could all put this fighting behind us and forgive and forget, extend the olive branch to all those that have been been here and are here, and now this happens. It would be nice if we could all just get along and stop the trash talk, the gals are happy with their new home and FF and while we miss them that is good they like it, everyone should be comfortable where they are and feel they are among friends. I don’t know, maybe we should all just take a little breather and let this settle. IAN posted a new thread. MJ and the missing body. That is good, a new start for you guys!

Sorry you all has such a crappy day, there really does need to be a moderator here.

Cheers, Kate

Yes … little Togishibai is a BIG little girl, with feathers like a duck and skin like an rhino! Tough as nails and soft as a marshmallow I am. A walking contradiction! And I’ve never felt the need to agree with everyone … as long as everyone doesn’t feel I need to agree with them. LOL

Hope you’re out whooping it up and having a GRAND time.
XOXOXOX